kiss2 For a quick refresher on Kelli and Tony, read pt. 1

What triggers (past or present) your day-dreams about leaving your marriage?

He Said:
Honestly, I don’t have these.  I don’t want to be self-righteous, but I just don’t.  Honestly, I live in fear of being without my wife and kids.  I don’t miss living alone

She Said:
Really and truly I don’t have those thoughts.  I suppose I may have a long time ago in moments of extreme anger, but I don’t really remember.  I actually worry about being left.  When I have hurt Anthony in a way that I can tell it is going to take some time to heal, I worry that he is going to leave me.  I worry that finally he is going to realize that I’m not the girl that he thought I was and leave me.  This is my wounding from my childhood.  People get upset and they leave me either physically or emotionally, so this is what I assume Anthony will do when times get tough.